Sunday, September 18, 2011
Next week is mid-terms
Den its recess week already
Can't wait for mid-terms to be over
So I can have a day break or two
Relax, eat and play
Anyway, just a short post today
To share a lesson I've learnt or realized
Sometimes people want to do something for us
Or offer a helping hand to make certain things happen
They usually will go through lots of trouble and time
And how would we reply them??
"Don't need lah. So troublesome for you."
"If troublesome then nvm lahh"
"Nvm lah, don't want to trouble you"
"So sorry to trouble you"
Think about it...
People are offering to help you
Sometimes they want to do it because they love you
Sometimes they do it because they are your friends
Yes it may be troublesome for them
But should you hence just reject or "push" them away
I think we have to be learn to be more grateful instead
We shouldn't say nvm or say sorry
Instead we should be thankful for their help
We should learn to be more appreciative instead of sorry or "paiseh"
Because people wants to do it, they want to do things for you
Let them do so, then repay them in your own way next time
I believe they will appreciate it more that their efforts are recognised
Rather than being disallowed from doing what they want for you
They'll be happy, you should be happy as well
And then do something back for them, make them happy as well
I'm sure this can make everyone happier, and closer
That's what friends are there for, isn't it
Well, that's about it.
It's all about looking at things from another perspective
And with another attitude, which I believe is the better one
And here's a beautiful song to share with everyone.
Enjoy and be grateful for the people around you.
Boys Like Girls - Two is Better than One

